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How You Betray Yourself.
How you betray yourself. Your handwriting.
All the world is but a page and each must write his, her part.
In the Renaissance it was Shakespeare, who said: "Give me the writing of a woman, and I will tell you her character".
The English writer, Disraeli says: "Handwriting bears an analogy to the character of the writer, as all voluntary actions are characteristic".
Please note what you about to read is very basic. Please DO NOT judge your husband, wife, children or friends from what you read.
I bring this out strictly in jest, and let you be informed what your handwriting can show about you.
Only a trained Graphologist will be able to spot, analyse the hundreds of telltale handwriting traits in a handwriting. No one alphabet or word should be used to conclude a person's personality or character. ****
Who are you? What kind of person are you?
Are you having a discreet affair? Are you lonely? Frustrated? Unhappy?
Do you fantasise a lot? Are you kinky? Are you sexually satisfied? Are you oversexed? Insatiable?
Are you cold, reserved? Are you warm, sincere, passionate, sexy? Are you healthy?
Do you have a double personality? Are you abusive, aggressive?
Are you vain, obnoxious, conceited? Elegant, conservative, liberal attitude?
The above applies equally to men and women.
Your handwriting is a picture of how you, the individual fill your life-space. It is the tracing of your actions as you progress through life, a physical expression of a mental, emotional and physical state.
Graphology (handwriting analysis) is a science with its basis just like all the other sciences; empirical, and scientific exploration of hypothesis and experimentation.
The various character traits that match up with the various graphological traits have been thoroughly tested through the traditional scientific methods.
Graphology is a science and should be best left to experts in the field. It takes years of study and training to become a qualified graphologist.
However, there are simple and logical explanations that can show you; how and why graphology works, and the implications for its practical uses.
Graphology (handwriting Analysis),
Grapho-Therapeutics (Breaking undesirable habits thru handwriting exercises).
I have spent the better part of 35 years on and off studying Psychology, Graphology and Grapho-therapeutics, researching about people's handwriting, as a hobby.
And it was in 1990 I turned part time professional analysing people's handwriting all over Canada, USA, and apart from the fees I charged, rewarded with testimonials from my clients.
As well given talks in Colleges on Forensic handwriting, and Psychology and handwriting.
I have since retired as computers have taken over handwriting.
It started long ago when I became fascinated with people's handwriting and studied the subject in England as well here in Canada. I have had discussions with police officers well versed in handwriting analysis re double personality and the criminal writing.
As the years passed, I visited hospitals, homes for the mentally challenged, the aged, visited jails, schools, kindergartens, as well studied thru certain authoritative sources suicide notes, divorce notes, forgery, criminal statements, love letters as well other documents pertaining to my research and studies.
You can see someone’s aptitudes, logical reasoning abilities, intelligence, interpersonal skills, sex drive, integrity, and psychological and physical health, in their handwriting.
Guess whose writing? Elvis Presley.
Your writing is initially motivated by the mind. The intricate nerve-muscle interplay necessary to accomplish the writing task originates in the central nervous system.
Your brain sends an order through the nervous system to the arm, hand and fingers, where together they manipulate the writing tool.
In this way, the intent to write forms deep within the creative processes of your mind and makes writing an expressive gesture representative of the mind behind the pen.
However, one sign does not cancel the significance of another. The counterweight of opposing signs must be considered.
My friends or people whose writings I analyse will always tell me they don't have beautiful handwriting.
In actual fact I prefer to look, analyse the untidy, quick writing then a beautiful handwriting with flourishes.
Untidy writing can signify quickness of mind, spontaneous, energetic, full of life, on the go.
It is the beautiful handwriting that takes a lot of time to analyse.
Why? Simply it takes time to write beautiful handwriting. You take time to think.
And to put it simply, a beautiful handwriting to me is like applying cosmetic, or could be a cover up to your real identity. (This is when I try to spot whether author has a double personality).
Testimony of the handwriting expert is admissible in a court of law for purposes of establishing identification or validity of a particular document.
Below an example when an handwriting expert was called in.
Jia Yuwen, a forensic document analyst from Liaoning who was a key expert witness in the legal wrangling over the estate of Hong Kong tycoon Teddy Wang.
After Wang was kidnapped in 1990, his wife Nina (who died earlier last year) produced a will naming her as sole beneficiary. Lower courts ruled the will a forgery on the basis of chemical dating and style analysis.
Jia was brought in for a final appeal in 2005, and he determined that a spot of pooled ink that other experts had pointed to as evidence of the heavy hand of a copyist was actually the result of a pause, completely consistent with Teddy Wang’s handwriting.
The court overturned the ruling and Nina got the estate.
Handwriting analysis is also regarded as a branch of applied psychology, and graphologists are frequently consulted in the vocational and medical diagnostic fields.
As Graphology covers a very wide aspect of personality, character traits, space and time does not permit me to cover all, but briefly instead just touch on character, personality, love, sex, a double personality, children's writing and your signature.
And here I will just mention, YOU,...a woman, what your writing tells about you.
However, please note, what you read here are just strictly basics or simple analysis.
Basically, where on the page you write, the zones, upper, middle and lower zone, angle, thickness of pen, size and spacing, speed of writing, connectedness and disconnectedness, letter specifics, rhythm and form will betray your personality and character.
I look and analyse the differences between normal and abnormal traits in your writing.
YOUR LIFE FOCUS IN YOUR HANDWRITING.
( SPIRITUAL – SOCIAL – MATERIAL WORLD )
Head: Upper Zone (UZ): The future, imagination,ideas, spirituality,
Body: Middle Zone (MZ). The present. Daily life, routine, reality, communication, social
Leg: Lower Zone (LZ): Self. Memory, sexual expression, dreams,
The paper you write on, and how and where you begin your sentences.
How you press your pen on the paper, the pressure, the embossment, I feeling the back of the paper will tell me more about you.
The left side of the page represents the past, your life, where you have been.
The right side of the page symbolises the future and other people.
The future is where you head when you begin a new line.
Right: Ideals, higher ambitions
Left: Living in the past Independence
Influence of mother Optimism
Fear, repression Present Dynamism
Defiance, introversion Independence Aggression
Lack of involvement Self-control Ability to plan
Inhibitions, caution Action Realize plans
Pessimism Rational Passion
Schizophrenia Future, realism
The five basic shapes will each one reveal a different personality, to determine a person’s public image.
Arcade, Rounded, Garland, Angular, Thread.
SPECIFIC CHARACTERISTICS OF SLANT.
Thinker : 81 - 90 degrees
Juggler : 65 - 80 degrees
Pleaser : 50 - 64 degrees
Reactor : 5 - 49 degrees
Mender : 91 - 105 degrees
Chameleon: 5 - 105 degrees
This type has a head over heart emotional attitude, open to experience of the moment, but cautious, emotions, expressions under control.
The manner is undemonstrative, detached and even indifferent. Quick to recover, functions well in emergencies. Makes a good leader.
This slant is considered the normal one, sensitive and emotionally healthy, humble, good judgement and logical thinking. Sympathy and compassion are expressed here than in vertical slant.
VERY INCLINED :
This people can be passionate about work and hobbies. They have abilities to laugh and cry easily, give vent to their feelings. They can be very jealous.
They express their emotional self impulsively.
Feelings will influence decisions, and they are quick to react with elation or discouragement.
They identify with their surroundings and with another person’s point of view and will respond with compassion. (50 degrees down).
This type of writing is a mixed pot of emotional reactions. Writer can be passionate, jealous, easily offended, and very demonstrative with affections, extremely ardent. Very susceptible to hurt and can hate bitterly and with abandon.
He / she loves the same way, restless, unsettled, impulsive, capable of hysteria, tends to wear out self, strongly influenced by likes and dislikes.
They can be easily stirred by or stirs other people’s emotions. They plunge into relationships or causes.
This slant is abnormal. It shows a strong indication of fanaticism and emotional illness.
‘Still water runs deep’. The writer outwardly looks sophisticated and polished, but it can mean a cover-up and compensate for inner withdrawal.
Often, there is an immature attachment to the ideals and values of their mother figure, which has usually played the dominant role. They tend to resist accepting progress or change.
Sexual hang-up or frustrations.
Generally speaking, the writer who 'lives for love', will have a rounded, flowing handwriting.
Rounded writers succumb more easily to feelings and fantasies, including romantic fantasies.
Roundness shows the tendency to be emphatic, warm and expressive. Rounded forms connote sensuousness. The more rounded your writing, the greater the probability that you succumb to pleasurable experiences.
Large rounded loops shows strong sex drive.
Angular writers are more interested in control than spontaneity, which may inhibit their romantic interests.
However, that doesn't mean that every rounded writer is incurably romantic, or angular forms means the writer is a 'cured' romantic.
Angular writers does not necessarily connote a lack of sensuousness, but may use sex as a means for controlling others, rather than a method of release.
How you write your strokes will indicate a wide range of romantic behaviour.
Classic romantics, 1/ long-term romantics, 2/ short-term romantics, 3/ obsessive romantics and 4/ non romantics.
1/ Long-term romantics:
This includes emotional stability, reliability, warmth, caring and imagination.
You as a woman can be ultra-conservative to wildly conventional. You are very capable of sustaining romantic feelings throughout the duration of a relationship.
Thus, your writing showing:
a/ Regularity shows emotionality,
b/ Roundness shows empathy and warmth,
c/ Good space between lines shows idealism.
2/ Short-term romantics:
You blow hot and cold quickly. You can be madly in love one minute and totally turned off the next.
Irregularity is the hallmark of the short-term romantic. Irregularity always shows inconsistency and unpredictable behaviour.
Your constantly changing letter sizes and zones confusion show that this female is emotionally changeable.
Her feelings to her partner can change like her writing.
3/ Obsessive romantics:
Angular writers are prone to romantic obsessions.This is because the angle formation in itself requires control, and even compulsion.
Angular writers want control in their relationships and tend to be more factual than feeling-oriented.
But when an angular writer falls in love, she will pursue a relationship with the same determination and urgency she applies to her work. Such intensity, urgency and energy translate into obsession.
4/ Non romantics:
For the non romantic, love is lowest on your lists of priorities, either because you are too insecure to believe that anyone could love you, or because you are more concerned with achievements and success.
Your writing will show, upper zone emphasis, illegible middle zone, narrowness, lack of loops, angularity, wide spaces between words and lines, and narrow lower zone formation.
a/ Lower zone formations show sexual inhibition.
b/ Wide space between words and lines show emotional isolation.
c/ Lack of loops shows suppression of feelings and fantasies.
d/ Narrowness shows inhibitions and restraint.
Illegible middle zone shows low self esteem.
f/ Upper zone emphasis shows intellect over emotions.
Your sexual needs and drives:
The sex drives are shown in handwriting in the lower zone letters' loops; the y's and g's. People often want to know what trait can signify a huge sex drive.
The longer the lower loops, the bigger the physical drives. Because any exaggerated desire stems from an equally exaggerated imagination, those people with huge sex drives also have a tendency to blow everything else out of proportion.
In the case of women, these are the type that break a nail and think the world is coming to an end. You know the type.
They also tell you the same story of getting a speeding ticket for a week, until a new and better tragedy comes along. On the bright side, they may make great storytellers, but if you are trying to form a relationship, it could be trouble.
For starters, if she exaggerates everything, her insecure feelings will also be blown out of proportion.
If you forget to say "I love you" one day, it means you don't love her anymore. If you look at another woman, in her mind, you might be having an affair.
I'm not suggesting that this scenario is typical of every woman with large lower loops. But what is typical is that every fear and/or desire is multiplied inside her mind.
I have a simple formula for those who tend to over-exaggerate. I just take the square root of the problem to find the core of the issue. This usually reveals a real version of the truth.
The big imagination goes along with the width of the loop. The depth of the loop is actually the sex drive. You can imagine that if you have both big and long, you have a real firecracker.
Some men think, "Well, I'd like a woman that wants sex at least four times a day. So, I'll find one with real long loops that are blown up like a balloon."
Be careful. Most men couldn't handle it! If you're the type of guy who likes to lift weights 12 ounces at a time and your best form of exercise is watching football on Sunday, you're in trouble.
A woman with a strong physical drive needs the physical activity. She needs change and variety. She likes sex in different positions and often. If you can't handle it, don't get involved.
Remember, when football season rolls around and you would rather watch the game with the guys than play touch with her, she'll go somewhere else to satisfy her needs.
This doesn't mean she will have an affair; but frustrations will find an outlet. If your mate suddenly takes up jogging ten miles a day and is planning to run the Boston marathon, you're not meeting her needs.
On the other hand, if you are the type of person who is looking for sport sex regardless of the rest of the personality, a large lower loop might be just what you want.
Don't be surprised when she exaggerates the facts about your encounter to her friends. And don't think you're the only one!
Do Big Loops Mean a Woman is Easy?
Big loops always signifies a big imagination regarding sex. She may really enjoy sex and need it frequently. She may think about sex often.
Whether she is easy or not depends on her self-esteem, values, and opportunities. Most people with big loops are very sexual. However, I've known women with very big y's that expressed this huge imagination and physical drive in avenues other than sex.
Vitality is evident when your writing shows good energy and strong movement across the page.
Good vitality is necessary to sexual performance. Poor vitality may result from a weak libido.
Good pressure on the paper is a sign of vitality, capacity for rigorous sexual performance.
Extremely heavy pressure may be a sign of emotional or sexual aggression.
Marylin Monroe's handwriting was studied by the FBI re her affair with JFK.
The single most important factor in your sexual writing strokes is the lower zone, i.e. the 'y's, g's.
This zone clearly depicts your interest in sex, need for sex, level of sexual fulfillment and frequency of sexual fantasies.
Ideally, a loop that is rounded and closes at the base line symbolizes sexual fulfillment.
Using the 'y' to demonstrate,
a/ Short loop shows an avoidance of sex or lack of interest in sex.
b/ Wide loop shows sexual interest, but frustration.
c/ Extremely wide loops shows sexual interest, great frustration and many unfulfilled sexual fantasies.
d/ Unclosed loops, a possible inability to arrive at *wink* Nirvana.
f/ Angular loops, shows aggression that could manifest sexually.
g/ Long lower loops, shows interest in sex,
h/ Long lower loops that don't return to base line, interest in sex but lack of fulfillment or repression.
i/ Peculiar loops shows sexual kinkiness.
j/ Varying lower loops shows desire for erotic experimentation.
k/ Narrow loops, sexual shyness, self consciousness and inhibition.
l/ Loops that close in the middle zone, shows self consciousness about your weight, sensitivity to touch.
Sexual LZ Tendencies
LZ loops that pull leftward shows a sexual tendency to depend upon the partner for initiation of the sexual act and for continued encouragement, support and approval.
Stems or loops drawing towards the right margin show a suppression of erotic drives in favour of social or ideal concerns.
The many possibilities for LZ formations.
Short loop. This shows an avoidance of sex or lack of interest in sex.
Wide loop. Shows sexual interest but at the same time feeling frustrated.
Extremely wide loop. Obsessive sexual interest, frustrations and unfulfilled sexual fantasies.
Left curve. Leans to past. Depends on others for sexual stimulation.
Lower zone ends light indicates sexual energy starts strong but dissipates quickly. Need for continual change of sex partner.
Narrow loops show sexual shyness, self-consciousness and inhibition. Severe repression of emotional needs.
Weakness in drives, disturbed coordination may be due to illness or anxiety
Possible sign of homosexuality.
Indicates signs of infidelity. Lower zone shows varying shapes and lengths.
Potential indication of a rapist. (There must be other clues and traits to check out).
Letters have clubbed stems or irregular stems.
Drifting left loops indicates (for men) sexuality as a tool for receiving “mothering”.
A warm and receptive nature, free from fear and inhibition. Flexible nature.
Sir Paul McCartney (Beatles) handwriting.
Unclosed loops. In a woman’s writing, indicates a possible inability to have an orgasm.
In a man’s writing, unfulfilled sexual fantasies and a search for satisfaction.
Downward ending loops. Shows discouragement, depression, anger (I check pressure here) toward current sexual partner.
Shows withdrawal, aggression that could manifest sexually, unconscious guilt. (Men with this writing shows a double standard regarding women, they want a virgin as a wife, speak loosely of women yet are sexually attracted to “loose” women.
Women who write like this indicates prudishness and a rejective personality.
Long lower loops. Shows interest in sex. May indicate restlessness.
Vagaries in LZ. When these are consistent in writing, indicates sexual fantasy or perversion.
Loops that close in the middle zone (men) show sexual shyness.
For women, self-consciousness about her weight/overweight, and sensitivity to touch, behaving in a girlish manner.
Unusual or peculiar loops, indicate sexual kinkiness.
Small closed loops show lack of sexual fulfillment or repression.
Lower zone ends long and light indicates possible sexual restlessness.
x-ing shows past disappointment in sexual life or deep fears. (I check the pressure for lower body illness or alcohol related problems.)
A person can have a double personality. To put it simply, she (or he) is two persons in one body. Outwardly prim and proper, that's for show.
But under other circumstances, can be rude, crude, violent, lack of tact, diplomacy, good virtues not in her, his vocabulary.
Writing shows strong sex drive.
But this kind of personality is not common, but can be found.
Here's where or what his or her writing, alphabets, strokes, slants, loops or spacing,vertical or angular mixed with bits of roundness will show.
Abruptness, signs of conservativeness, jealousy, argumentativeness, shyness or inhibited, quiet.
One telltale sign is he or she tells you, he or she is not the kind of person he or she is. But in actual fact he or she is.
There can be two kinds of a double personality, the good and warm and generous kind, or the vicious, selfish, revengeful, abusive, manipulative, lying kind with hidden motives, hidden agendas.
Having a discreet affair:
Your handwriting will have certain changes in terms of your loops, strokes, spacing, rhythm and shows slow speed, maybe some wriggles, squiggles and pauses.
Where you write on the paper will also tell something about you.
(If married, it's your conscience that affects your mind, your brain controls your finger movements, thus your writing betrays you.)
Why? Because, remember, your mind or brain controls your writing hand, thus if married and having a discreet affair with Antonio Banderas, or George Clooney. Or Salma Hayek, your conscience will betray your writing.
But only to the trained eye.
Similarly, you win the jackpot in a lottery. Your writing, your signature will change into a slightly more aggressive style.
Why? Money is power.
The criminal mind: To analyse and apprehend persons who belong to the criminal classes confers a peculiar ability.
Confidence, force, energy, shrewdness, alertness, judgement, and resolute purpose are in evidence.
Thus, the signs are positive, specific and clear.
The writing is firm, steady and sharp with bold t-crossings. Letters are usually pointed at the baselines and at the top and fairly close.
Final letters end abruptly with downward strokes straight below the lines.
As we now have learned the left side of a page symbolically speaking represents the Mother, her influence and the right, the Father.
Each of us begins life with the mother and in the next phase of development, with the father, other family members and the outside world.
The child’s world begins at home with his / her parents, sisters and brothers, then broadens to school where he / she spends more than half a day with the teachers.
What and how does a child now accept his / her surroundings, fears, authority and situations?
The clues to this childhood attitudes will be exposed in certain characteristics of their handwriting.
Good rightward movement shows a good adjustment to the father, the outside world and the future.
If the writing shows a resistance of rightward movement, this can mean difficulties with the father or possibly excessive involvement with the mother.
Note: No outgoing tails. Letters ending inwards.
CHILDHOOD FEARS, UNDERLYING INSECURITIES:
Fear of failure, guilt and cover-up:
When the child’s writing is slow and careful, rigid with restraint with retouched letters.
Fear of being alone:
Letters and words close to each other, crowding with bends in upper zone. Lower zone touching below UZ.
The writing will be confined to limited space on paper.
Poor or immature lead-in strokes with lower loops drawn to the left.
Shyness: Small words and letters slanting to the left.
Stubbornness: The child forms triangles in his / her writing.
Note the tops of their m’s and n’s. Will show a bent shape.
Look for t-bars above the stem. Child will also emphasise tall letters.
Holding on to security:
Note if writing more to left of page. Child will have hooks on last letters with writing having a leftward slant.
Lots of flourishes with last letters tending to be higher.
When the child’s writing goes downhill with some letters not displayed clearly.
Long lower loops with some tangling of LZ. (Lower Zone)
Deceit / lying:
Writing shows a’s and o’s with double loops. If there are hooks at beginning of letters, this may indicate a child who may resort to stealing. (Note: There must be other traits, factors to look for before concluding)
NOTE: Please do not judge a child from the above mentioned, it is only basic indicative.
There are other factors to consider,
i.e. page, pressure, pen used, color, Country, Race, Religion, teacher who teaches handwriting (children tend to or will copy, till they grow older and change to their own style) etc.
Barrack Obama's and Hilary Clinton's signatures.
Basically, your signature is your signboard to the world of who you are or who you are not.
The signature and the personal pronoun 'I' are probably the two most intimate graphic movements that a person makes on the paper.
An individual's signature may change with changes in his or her life situation.
They are your representations of the self, self-image, concepts condensed into a small but telling format.
However, a signature is not sufficient for an in-depth analysis.
It must be evaluated in the context of at least a two or three paragraph handwriting sample.
Note, We cannot, should not just see the alphabet and conclude for example, she/he is 'hotstuff', or 'cold', but other parts of her/his writing must be taken whole context, the pressure of the writing, MUST BE taken into consideration.
What I have mentioned above is just to indicate basically how your writing, to a trained eye can tell about you, or betray you.
What you have read above is very basic, and only the tip of the iceberg.
There are many more traits, factors to be taken into consideration before a proper analysis can be done.
NOTE: No single sign is by itself adequate to judge a quality of a person’s character.
Each has many meanings. I Look for other tendencies, clues…pointing to the same direction before conclusion is made.
I never read what people write. I look at how they write.
Keep well and have a nice day, ......Uncle Lee.